Here I am, writing the ultimate rare post.
This is the first time in my history of dating that I'm truly happy in my relationship.
Well, not always, but most of the time I feel so happy. It energizes me.
Me and him are in a long distance relationship, but it doesn't feel hard when we have no secrets between us. We’ve confessed everything and surprisingly both of us are still here together, genuinely. We also share the same love language, which makes it easier.
We argue of course, but not a lot.
We don’t fight, yell, or get harsh to each other.
I'm a passive type who becomes silent and disappears when I'm mad. Maybe it's not good but I really need to cool down the heat first so I can discuss things in a calm manner.
I'm still bad at communication like expressing something right away, but he covers that flaw. For him, the sign is when I start talking in English that day then it means something serious is bothering me that we have to talk about. He will ask me non-stop haha.
On the other hand, he's an assertive type.
He doesn't put any pressure on me when he's mad, doesn’t raise his voice since he knows that I'll cry, doesn’t attack my vulnerabilities, doesn’t throw tantrums, and never even blames me.
It makes me feel safe to talk everything out instead of going to sleep angry.
Once again, it’s the very first time that arguing in relationship always end up good, happy. There are times when we said “sorry” at the same time and we laugh about it. Lots of laughter than arguing. I’m grateful to have him and experience this kind of love.
You gave me the love I had been dreaming of.
I'm proud of us.
I'm grateful to have you too, baby.
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