Just a response letter to my stalker: @lankylittlemid / @wizzlediddle / @stellaladin / @shoppaholla
Don't worry, I'm not going to spill your real username here so no one will know that you are actually a mean person.
You’re welcome.
This is for all hurtful things you proudly wrote about me.
I'm sure the only things you know about me are the assumptions you have made from all my social media accounts, including this blog when you’re extremely mad to see the 'hey stalker' meme I made for you.
If you wanted to say that I look ridiculous at least be a little bit pretty and stylish in your appearance first.
You hate me, obviously. But I don't hate you at all because I understand your pathetic situation, really.
Your boyfriend left you lonely with a broken heart, you were hurt and disappointed, you couldn't help to keep asking why it is so hard for you to let go, yeah... I've been there.
Girl, don't tell me I have no idea about your thread on twitter.
I had done a lot to my ex too just like what you did, supported through ups and downs (mostly downs) as well. But I never bring up that matter because I did all of that pure from my heart. You didn’t? No wonder.
So here that I want to clear up for you, I don't steal your boyfriend.
I never talked to him before in past 4 years. When I asked him about his status he said, "I'm single". I wasn’t the reason he decided to end things with you. Besides, you were the dumper. Who steals who? Maybe you thought he was gonna get back to you like the old times, but turned out he came along to me. You were in denial state, took a situation that I had no part in and blamed me for it.
He such a good guy, closed his mouth about your sins. A manipulative person won't do that. But I need a story from his side because I’m not gonna hear only from your lalaland.
He finally told me that you had been cursed him A LOT. You were dominated him with no respect. His friends even said that he barely seemed happy before. If you really claimed yourself know him better than I do, you shouldn't done any of that because he takes things to the heart. What 6 years for? Graduated from elementary school? Ups sorry not sorry.
You focused on his fault but forgot about your own mistakes. He cannot count how many times you've hurt his feelings because you treated him like a garbage.
Don't you know you are toxic? Emotionally abusive? Narcissistic? Hellish girlfriend? No?
You can twist the story and fool everyone around you, but I’ve already saved some screenshots from your fake twitter accounts where you posted unkind words about him. I hope you get your sanity back soon so you can clearly think about all the rude and mean things you've ever said.
Lastly about you took a massive part back then, WOW do you desperately need some appreciation now? Here then, thank you for everything you've done for him, included his accident in the past which happened because of you.
That is all, I'm done with your dramatic big mouth. Make yourself speak nicely before trying to shit on someone randomly and call her a bitch. Seriously, what kind of an ESL teacher has that kind of attitude? Miss, you're the one who supposed to be ashamed. I can’t believe I’m dealing with this childish behavior that comes from someone who is much way older than me. Don’t be that shameful.
It's been 8 months, move on. You told me you don't want him back, but you didn't shut it out. You keep telling tales behind our back, spreading false narratives, recruiting friends to online stalk, insulting me to get my reaction, trying to reach out to him via Kik messenger, and suddenly getting along with one of his friends you used to hate in order to get some information then expecting her to deliver your message. Crazy.
Only a sorely jealous psycho would behave this way.
I know you’re obsessed but please know your place, you've been blocked. No matter how many accounts you make, I will always find them. I don’t care about you or your cheap drama because I’m not competing with anyone. Go get a positive personality and stop messing with someone else’s happiness.
I wasn’t sure whether to post this or not because he said your scene is not important, but here goes the facts you need to know.
Have a good life outsider.
Sincerely,
Your ex's current girlfriend.
[UPDATE] SEPTEMBER, 2026.
Just another response letter to my stalker: @kang_nyu
I know you are still reading my blog after all these years.
Every time you open my blog I know you are there, viewing it on your mobile phone.
In 2023, I posted New Year, New Life sharing how delicious my husband's cooking is. Then, you tweeted about how delicious your cooking is. Coincidence? Nah, girl. The never-ending coincidences are still happening.
I posted Hello My Glasses where I talked about being cheated on twice, then you tweeted "When u said that u've got your feeling hurt twice, girlllllllll, i want to hug you so bad, wishing that it could ease your pain."
After noticing the specific word 'twice', I felt like thanking you because you were actually reading my blog.
Now in 2026, I posted Don't Ever Fake It Till You Make It in late August. It’s a sensitive topic to you and that's when my suspicions from all these years finally turned out to be right. You are the one who always viewed my blog on your mobile browser around the beginning of each month, for years. As I expected, you read and reacted to that recent post in early September. You are so mad at my writing because it’s true and you feel attacked.
From your big reaction and bad emotional regulation, I can see that you know nothing about my life. You keep checking my blog just because you are hoping to see your ex suffer or to see our marriage fall apart. You still don’t want your ex to get a happy ending after the hell you put him through. I know how much you hate him because you are a man-hater, even to your own dad. You’ve created a delusion in your mind that I hate my life, regret my decision marrying him, stuck with him, fake my happiness just so you can feel like you're living a better happier life than me. Don’t tell me I can’t bear to see you happy when you are actually the one who can’t stand seeing me happy with him since 8 years ago. If incapable of having a good and useful significant other really makes you happy, then by all means, please keep it up, I’m genuinely so happy for your forever-spinster life.
This blog is public and I can't stop you from reading page after page. Cut the crap about not wanting to know, how did you know your ex is gaining weight? I honestly don't mind you reading it and losing yourself among the hundreds of posts. What I do mind is you making accusation against me again.
8 years ago, I wrote this letter because you accused me of being a thief, and now I'm suddenly a 24/7 hater?? Me? Hating you?? Aren’t you the one who still calling me a bitch?
So here that I want to clear up for you, I did not send you the anonymous hate comments you just screenshot. Wallahi.
It's not me. Stop framing me. That 1 hour ago I literally busy shopping at the mall.
Well, since I have nothing to do with that, it's not my problem.
Good luck with whatever that is.
Sincerely,
Your ex's wife.
